The colder weather reminds me of our biological needs. I write about it every fall and spring, because I feel somehow that it hits me harder than it hits “normal” people.
In fall, our bodies are biologically preparing for winter. We tend to look for warmth, food, and companionship (to, eventually, propogate the species) before bedding down for the cold fronts ahead. This is why you’ll find people pairing up that you normally would’ve NEVER matched up.. and why they’ll last until spring.
Ah, spring. Spring is when we celebrate life because, well, hell.. we made it through the winter. People just wanna pollenate some flowers, to plant their seeds, and to happily create more life.
But it’s fall. And Sarah is ready to hibernate. I feel cruddy, and I just wanna snuggle up by my fireplace with my Papa Bear and not leave the house. But this stupid bills thing.. requires a stupid work thing.. damn evolution.
There are a few upshots to the winter. There’s apple cider, hot chocolate, Christmas cookies, freshly baked rolls, and dare I forget.. cranberry sauce. And a new year of the WildeChicks, with one guaranteed addition.
The fall really, really, REALLY makes me miss Delle. We had so many traditions and it was always such a happy time in our house. The great thing is that I have the WildeChicks, who are a fantastic group of women.
I’m a little further into Little Earthquakes. That’s probably why I’m so female-centric today.
But I want to say that. I want to say that, growing up, I had only male friends. I only had boys. And boys are great, please don’t misunderstand.. I can hold my own with any walk of life now thanks to those boys. But I never really had girlfriends. And I think, now, that I missed out.
Steph, the original WildeChick, is so fantastic there almost aren’t words. It amazes me how wise she is, mostly because she’s been there. And probably the best part about her is that you can dance to the beat of your own drummer, and she’ll clap along and won’t judge. And she teaches me dirty sign language so that I can embarrass her when I’m in front of a crowd.
Ronda is so much fun! She’s as blunt as I wish any woman to be, and she will tell you like it is. She’s also an incredible teacher, and I love how she’s unafraid to be original. Did I mention she’s also a phenomenal choreographer? She will have to dance at my wedding.. and I think I know the moves! I can’t wait for Baby Aardvark to truly see how amazing her mom is.
Elaine.. Elaine is one of my 9/3 sisters. It kinda creeps me out how much alike we are. Virgos are naturally OCD, very linear in logic, and straight-shooters. We love a bit too strongly and we think that we know the answers to everything.. and Elaine and I are almost textbook Virgos. It never fails that every time we’re around eachother, some similarity will come up, and we just have to say, “It’s a 9/3 thing!”
These women keep me smiling every day. We all email and laugh and the bond is there. There’s a level of trust and security that is unequaled.
As Oscar himself said, “I like persons better than principles, and I like persons with no principles better than anything else in the world.”