Things I have never really cared about:
- Having pictures of myself. You will not browse through my Flickr and see tons of pics at arm’s length because I needed just one more profile shot of myself. Especially since I’ve had the baby.. I think pixels are much better spent on capturing that amazing little creature that I pushed out of my nu-nu.
- Religion. I know it’s all important to some people, and there have been fleeting pangs of jealousy in that respect, but for the most part? Eh. I believe what I believe, and I think the rest takes care of itself.
- Labels. I like to buy quality wardrobe pieces, so admittedly, my staple pieces are labels (primarily Ann Taylor, Banana Republic, and Gap). But not because I like flashing that info around; because those brands hold up extremely well. I’d much rather brag about finding an amazing steal on a knock-off.
- Personal parenting choices. Whether you choose to deliver naturally, breastfeed, co-sleep, or homeschool, it’s your decision for your child. It may not be what I do with my child, but I hope you’ll pay me the same respect in my choices as I try to with yours.
- Appearing perfect. I am the first to admit when I fuck up, or fall down, or swallow my foot, because we’re all human. In reality, it’s too damn hard trying to appear perfect all the time. And people who try? Bless their crazy hearts.
- Crafts. I cannot do them. I don’t have the time, the patience, or the skill. So while I LOVE to admire your work from afar, I know my limitations. I will happily pay you to do your craft for me.
- Formalities. I work with the military. And while I always answer with “sir”, “ma’am”, or “their title here”, I have no qualms about joking around with everyone. Even if it gets me chided from onlookers, I’d much rather them feel comfortable.
What do you think people put too much importance on? Or what do you find especially grating?
You are quite the blogger these days, nice topic selections! Here’s my list:
1. Money. Yes, we need it, obviously, but I find the less importance I put on it the easier it becomes to manage.
2. Looking good. Not just physically, but presenting the perfect marriage, perfect family, 2.5 kids and the well groomed dog, etc. That’s so not us, and I’ve realized over time that it’s not anyone. It’s just too much pressure people, love your family for (or sometimes in spite of) what they are.
3. What other people think. I still catch myself occasionally getting caught up in that, but I’m proud to say for the most part I just don’t care anymore.
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I am with you on the parenting choices deal. If it works for your family then it is the perfcet way, please respect my perfect way as well. Which is currently watching some Noggin again… that didnt last.
Im into lables- Im trying to get over it now that my life is t-shirts and jeans but I have to admit, wearing 7′s and a j-crew T with cute flip flops and carrying coach… sadly, makes me feel good about myself. BUT its for me, not anyone else- since I dont have friends where I live.
Celebrity gossip- I love it, Im not addicted to it, I dont watch TMZ but I still love a good Brit story, or a photo of Angie pregnant with #14
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Things that grate my nerves:
Sense of entitlement. Because at the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter how cool you think you are, you still probably have spinach in your teeth sometimes or forget to zip your fly, just like the rest of the human population.